Words of condolence: what to write in a sympathy card
Comfort with the right words, without clichés. Here are sincere condolence messages to help you express your sympathy simply, when it matters most.
Touching
- There are no words that make this easier, so I'll simply say I'm here. Holding you close in my thoughts, and thinking of you with so much love during this difficult time.
- Grief is love with nowhere to go. Take all the time you need — and know you don't have to carry this alone. I'm just a call away, whenever you need me.
Short
- So deeply sorry for your loss. Thinking of you with love.
Formal
- Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your loved one. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
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Frequently asked questions — condolences messages
What should I write in a condolences card?
Name the occasion and the person, add one concrete detail — a memory, a quality, a wish — and keep it to two or three sentences. A short, sincere condolences message always beats a long, generic one.
What is a good short condolences message?
Pick one warm idea and say it plainly. On this page, the "short" tone gives you two-line condolences messages you can copy straight onto a card.
How do I personalize a message I found online?
Start from an example close to the tone you want, then swap one or two elements for something specific — a first name, a shared memory, a date. Our generator can do this for you in the tone you choose.